Guys aren’t hard to impress all they need is a skirt that is a little too short or a shirt that is a little too low and you have their full attention. Yeah it feels good to have their full attention and the stares, but think about the kind of guys that you are attracting. The girls who dress like sexy and are obviously trying to get attention are only going to attract guys who have one night stands and then leave you in the dust moving on to the next pretty little thing. There was a quote that said, “Immodesty is like rolling around in the mud yes you get attention, but only from pigs.” That is an absolute true to life quote. Think about it you want a guy who respects your values, who loves you and who just wants to take care of you. Well you’re not going to find him by dressing like a steak instead of a salad. You are most likely going to find someone like that trying to stay away from the in crowd. You and dressing modestly isn’t dressing like a nun it is just putting a tank top under that low cut shirt or not wearing those shorts that you know or too small.
It is hard for a guy to practice self control as it is and the one who does are the ones that you should be around. You want a guy to focus on you, your personality, and your beauty not your boobs or you butt. How you can try to make sure he is doing that is dressing better and like I said that doesn’t mean dressing like a nun. I shop at hollister all the time, but what makes the difference is that I make sure I am buying stuff that isn’t too short or shows my stomach. Yeah honestly it can get a little annoying having to put a tank top on underneath shirts, but I do because I don’t want guys looking at my chest instead of my face. A guy should enjoy your face and your personality not your boobs or butt.